Why Your Goals are Failing (and How Systems Save Them)
We are heading into the middle of February and how are those New Year’s Resolutions going?  We’ve all been there.  Having ambitious well intentioned goals, only to have them fizzle out by the middle of February and non-existent in March.  

The problem isn’t your amibiton…it’s your system setup. If goals are your destination, then systems are the vehicle that get you there.

Let’s look at this more in depth:
Feature                      Goals (The “What”)                          Systems (The ‘How”)
Focus                         Results and Outcomes                       Daily habits and processes
Duration                     Temporary (ends once reached)         Continuous (lifestyle based)
Control                       Often influenced by luck                     100% within your control
Happiness                  Deferred to the finish line                    Found in the daily progress

3 Reasons Systems Beat Goals Every Time
Goals Have an Endpoint Problem
Have you ever trained for a race, finished it, and then stopped running entirely? That’s 
the goal trap. Once the target is hit, the motivation evaporates. A system makes you a runner, regardless of whether there’s a medal waiting at the end of the week.
Systems Build Consistency, Goals Build Stress
When you focus solely on a goal, you are perpetually in a state of "not being good enough yet." Systems flip the script. If you show up and do the work today, you’ve succeeded. It replaces the anxiety of the "gap" with the satisfaction of the "gain."
Success is a Lagging Measure
Your bank account is a lagging measure of your financial habits. Your fitness is a lagging measure of your eating habits. You don't "attain" success; you inhabit the systems that produce it as a byproduct.

"You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems." — James Clear

How to Build Your First System
Don’t scrap your goals.  They are your “direction finders.” Once you know where you are going, pivot your focus to the minimum repeatable action.

Goal
System
Lose 20 pounds
Walk for 30 minutes every morning and prep high-protein lunches on Sundays.
Write a book
Write 200 words every day at 7:00am with a cup of coffee.

Goals are great for setting a course, but systems are for making true progress.  If you ignored your goals for a month and focused only on your daily habits, would you still see results?  YES!  You’ve built a system that works.

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Meet Jennifer Doede

Jennifer Doede has been in the education field for over 24 years, currently serving as Athletic Director at Amos Alonzo Stagg High School in Palos HIlls, IL since 2021. Jennifer holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Education from North Central College and a Master’s Degree in Educational Administration from St. Xavier University. She is actively involved in both the Illinois Athletic Director Association (IADA) and National Interscholastic Athletic Administrator Association (NIAAA), presently serving as the Illinois Athletic Director Association’s State Certification Chair. Through the National Interscholastic Athletic Administrator Organization and the National Federation of High Schools, Jennifer holds certifications as a Certified Master Athletic Administrator and NFHS Level 3 Certified Coach.  

Jennifer’s mission as a leader is to empower others to see the greatness that lies within them.  She believes that every day is a growth opportunity. Jennifer is a John Maxwell Certified Speaker, Coach, Trainer;  Jon Gordon Certified Trainer, and Mental Performance Mastery Certified Trainer.

Mission:  Empower others to see the greatness that lies within them.

Core Values:  Family, Integrity, Growth

Coaching/Training Principles:
1. Have a positive presence
2. Be a person of high character
3. Have a growth mindset
4. Have fun. Enjoy the time.  Every day, get a win!

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