The "Go Big or Go Home" Myth: Why Tiny Steps Lead to Grand Journeys
We've all heard it: "Go big or go home!" It's a mantra often shouted from motivational posters and entrepreneurial podcasts, promising that only the grandest, most boldest leaps lead to success. But what if this seemingly empowering phrase is actually a subtle trap, pushing us towards an unsustainable pursuit of perfection and leaving us feeling deflated when our massive efforts don't immediately pay off?

The "go big" mentality can breed a kind of all-or-nothing perfectionism. If every endeavor has to be a home run, a game-changer, or a viral sensation, then the fear of falling short becomes paralyzing. We postpone projects, hesitate to start new habits, and procrastinate on important tasks, waiting for that elusive perfect moment or revolutionary idea. The pressure to "go big" can be so immense that we end up "going nowhere" instead, stuck in analysis paralysis or the quicksand of self-doubt.

So, what's the antidote to this "go big or go home" trap? The quiet, powerful truth of incremental progress.  Yep.  Progress instead of perfection. This is the power of small, consistent steps. Whether you're learning a new skill, building a business, improving your health, or writing a book, the most sustainable and impactful progress often comes from the compound effect of tiny, manageable actions.

Here's why incremental progress is better:
  • Reduces Overwhelming Feelings: Breaking down large goals into small, achievable steps makes them less daunting and more approachable.
  • Builds Momentum: Each small win provides a psychological boost, fueling your motivation to continue. This positive feedback loop is crucial for long-term engagement.
  • Encourages Learning and Adaptation: Small steps allow for course correction and refinement along the way. You can learn from your experiences without having invested everything into one huge, unchangeable strategy.
  • Fosters Consistency: It's far easier to commit to a small, daily action than to a sporadic, monumental effort. Consistency is the secret sauce for lasting change.
  • Cultivates Resilience: When a small step doesn't go as planned, it's easier to recover and adjust than when a massive, all-consuming effort falls flat.

So, the next time you feel the pressure to "go big," remember that true, lasting impact is often forged in the quiet dedication to small, consistent steps. Don't be afraid to start small, to make incremental gains, and to celebrate the journey rather than just the destination. Because it's in those seemingly tiny efforts that the truly grand achievements are made.

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Jennifer Doede has been in the education field for over 24 years, currently serving as Athletic Director at Amos Alonzo Stagg High School in Palos HIlls, IL since 2021. Jennifer holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Education from North Central College and a Master’s Degree in Educational Administration from St. Xavier University. She is actively involved in both the Illinois Athletic Director Association (IADA) and National Interscholastic Athletic Administrator Association (NIAAA), presently serving as the Illinois Athletic Director Association’s State Certification Chair. Through the National Interscholastic Athletic Administrator Organization and the National Federation of High Schools, Jennifer holds certifications as a Certified Master Athletic Administrator and NFHS Level 3 Certified Coach.  

Jennifer’s mission as a leader is to empower others to see the greatness that lies within them.  She believes that every day is a growth opportunity. Jennifer is a John Maxwell Certified Speaker, Coach, Trainer;  Jon Gordon Certified Trainer, and Mental Performance Mastery Certified Trainer.

Mission:  Empower others to see the greatness that lies within them.

Core Values:  Family, Integrity, Growth

Coaching/Training Principles:
1. Have a positive presence
2. Be a person of high character
3. Have a growth mindset
4. Have fun. Enjoy the time.  Every day, get a win!

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